Let there be cake!

Today is a very special day because two of my favourite people in the world – my NS BFF and my Ottawa BFF – celebrate their birthdays on March 6th. Isn’t that an awesome coincidence? I think so.

I always took it as a bit of a “sign” that Ottawa BFF was put in my path. She is generous, kind, smart, funny and knows more about wine than I could ever hope to know. We actually met because of one of her acts of kindness. Remind me to tell you about it sometime.

My NS BFF and I met in the first few weeks of our first year of university and we have been friends ever since. There’s nothing like a dry sense of humour and a mutual love of music to bond two people together so quickly! Also, you know someone is destined to be your BFF when you can call each other out on your B.S., pretty much right off the bat, which we did and it was awesome! Of course, there’s a story there, too, but I’ll also tell you that – wait for it – another time.

In honour of these very special women on their very special day, I am sharing a recipe for the most decadent and amazing chocolate cake in the universe… EVER! Yay, cake!

This cake is my NS BFF’s “Birthday” cake, made by her Mom every year. Isn’t that sweet? Since she is my BFF, I will not be telling you how many times this cake has been made. (Though, if you really wanted to, you might be able to figure out a round about number when you see the copyright information, but I digress..)

So, without further ado, I give you:

Sour Cream Chocolate Cake

This is a rich chocolate cake that freezes beautifully and looks as good as it tastes. (Serves 8 to 10)

2 cups all-purpose flour, unsifted

2 cups sugar

1 cup water

3/4 cup sour cream (190 ml)

1/4 cup butter

1 1/4 teaspoons baking soda

1 teaspoon salt

1 teaspoon vanilla extract

1/2 teaspoon baking powder

2 eggs

4 ounces unsweetened baking chocolate, melted (3 x 85g squares)


1/2 cup butter

4 ounces unsweetened baking chocolate

4 cups powdered sugar

1 cup sour cream

2 teaspoons vanilla extract


Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Measure all ingredients into a large bowl and beat for 1/2 minute at low speed, scraping the sides of the bowl constantly. Then beat for 3 minutes at highest speed. Pour into greased and floured cake pans: 2 9-inch pans or 3 8-inch pans. Bake for 20 to 25 minutes. Remove from the oven and cool on a rack. For the frosting: In the top of a double boiler, melt butter and chocolate over barely simmering water. Remove from heat and cool. Add powdered sugar, then blend in sour cream and vanilla, beat until smooth.

Important Rules that Make this my BFF’s Birthday cake

Use a bundt pan. Bake at 350 degrees for 60 – 70 minutes. Bundt pans make cakes fancy without anything “extra” at all.

The cake itself is very rich and doesn’t really *need* frosting. NS BFF’s Mom uses a chocolate glaze rather than the frosting.

My thoughts

A little dusting of confectioner’s sugar would be beautiful and is one way to lighten up this cake. Filling the centre with fresh raspberries or a variety of berries is also a nice healthy garnish.

This recipe is from a cookbook called “San Francisco à la Carte”* (p. 432), and though I have a scanned copy of the recipe, complete with sweet and personalized hand written notes from my NS BFF’s Mom (I like to think of these as “historical documents”), you can still find this cookbook by searching online and maybe, if you are lucky, at a second hand bookstore or yard sale!

As often happens in my life when I delve deeper into things I am interested in or working on, I discovered two very fun facts today about this book.

The first is that it was a Junior League of San Francisco project. I had no idea, as I had never seen the actual book before.  This is interesting to me because another friend of mine – a new IRL friend – is a Junior League member here in Halifax and when I found the book online I had one of those “Eureka!” moments.

The second is that this cake recipe is featured in the beginning of “San Francisco à la Carte” in the suggested menus section, under “Barbeques-Picnics” as a part of a “Wine Country Picnic” menu. Ha! If that isn’t just perfect for my Ottawa BFF, I don’t know what perfect is!

Happy Birthday to my BFFs! My life is better with you in it and I am ever grateful for your presence.

Now, let there be cake!

* “San Francisco à la Carte” Copyright 1979 by the Junior League of San Francisco, Inc. A Main Street Book published by Doubleday

About Peadyhttp://temperedwithkindness.comI’m sensitive and I’d like to stay that way.

22 thoughts on “Let there be cake!

    • BFFs *are* the best! Thank goodness I am blessed with the ability to find my people! 😀

      YES! People who know way too much and love you anyway!! AMAZING! Astonishing, actually. 😉

      I have to tell you the cake is seriously to die for. So rich and awesome! It’s also *so* pretty! I need a new bundt pan! I think this cake will be Easter dinner dessert!

  1. Happy birthday to your BFFs !! The cake sounds delicious. I will need to try to make it one day. Thanks for sharing, Laureen !

    • Thanks! I’ll pass on the wishes! 🙂

      The cake is delicious! Honestly. Soooo yummy! Go for it!

      You are so welcome! Thank *you* for visiting!

    • Thank you! Yes! BFFs rock! You should know! You are one! 😀

      I don’t know what I’d do without my people!

      Thanks so much for visiting. I appreciate it so much!

    • Aww. Thank you, Sarah. 🙂

      My NS BFF sent me a message saying she hopes that everyone enjoys the cake as much as she has over the years. It really is a great cake!

    • Thanks! 😊

      It’s a really easy cake – no sifting required – it just turns out great. Every time!

      I would love to bring it to a blogger/twitter potluck! How fun would that be?

      Thanks for reading. I appreciate it very much.

  2. Mmm, this sounds delicious 🙂 Not so good for my sugars, but I can’t pass up a good recipe! I’ll let the wife and son eat most of it 😉
    Friends like that are hard to come by and even harder to forget! Happy birthday to them 🙂 Our LO celebrates the 7th and we just did a cake post too, lol. No recipe with ours though!

    • It is truly a delicious cake, but I bet you could modify the recipe to make it GF and lower sugar! I plan on finding out. 🙂

      You are right. Good friends definitely are a blessing.

      Thanks for visiting. I appreciate it!

    • I have the best BFF! That’s also possibly the best cake- and I know cake! 😉

      We need a very serious and immediate about face meteorologically speaking.

      Thanks for visiting! It means a lot!

  3. Nothing goes better with cake than your BFFs! Whether celebrating IRL or virtually, I hope you three have a great day 🙂

    PS – Ask the friend who knows wine makes a recommendation to go with the cake. All cakes need beverages…Thx

    • Thank you! I swear it is so rich and delicious. I miss my friend (and her Beau!). This is from 2 whole years ago! Where on Earth does the time go?

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