And In The Morning, We Will Remember Them.

for everything there is a season


Today, November 11th, is Remembrance Day in Canada.

In Nova Scotia it was a day off from school, for all children, and work, for many adults, so they could reflect on the many sacrifices that have been made by soldiers of the Canadian Military so that we can enjoy our many freedoms.

It was the first thing on my mind when I woke up this morning.


One of the ways we chose to reflect, pay our respects, and express our thanks, was to attend a Remembrance Day Ceremony at our local cenotaph.

So that is exactly what we did.


It was a gorgeous Autumn morning, so we decided to park a fair distance away and walk along the Bedford Highway and Shore Drive to the cenotaph in Fish Hatchery Park. We were not alone. Many people chose to walk and it was so moving to enter the park from Shore Drive and see a sea of people already there. People were even lining Sunnyside Bridge above the park. It really made me feel so proud.


The ceremony was beautiful and I shed many tears thinking of all the Daddies and Mummies who were lost and the ones who are still offering up their lives to go on dangerous Military missions. Then I thought of all the little children who were without those Mummies and Daddies. It was too much. When “The Last Post” was played I could no longer hold back tears. It’s just such a sad and meaningful piece of music.

I very conscientiously did not touch my iThing for the entire ceremony out of respect for those we were honouring. I chose to remember the ceremony for myself. There were many families present and the children were so respectful and extremely well behaved. It was another proud moment.

After the Act of Remembrance was complete and the many wreaths were placed at the base of the cenotaph and the ceremony was complete we removed our poppies and, along with many of the other attendants, added them to the wreaths.

I felt this was an acceptable time to take a photo (once all the people had gone). I just wanted to capture how lovely the cenotaph looked with all the bright poppies in front of it.


Thing 2 can point out where her poppy is in this photo. It was important to her to choose the right spot. It was sweet to watch the Things taking all of this in this morning. It’s important for children to learn their history and why we do the things we do when it comes to historical events. I am glad our kids are curious and interested. It makes talking about tough topics a lot easier for the parents.

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Thing 1 and Thing 2 after removing their poppies and placing them at the cenotaph. They insisted on dressing up this morning. Thing 1 wore dress clothes and, to me, Thing 2 was like a poppy personified.

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It was a wonderful morning. We walked back to our car and I noticed these huge poppies on the Mosque on the Bedford Highway and had to take a picture. Isn’t that nice?


We were trying to think of something nice we could do with the remainder of Remembrance Day and we decided to visit Video Difference to see if there was something we could watch as a family. How nice is this “Feature” section for Remembrance Day?


We had a hard time finding something. I mean, let’s face it, war isn’t exactly a topic we want our children exposed to in movies, so it makes sense there are not a lot of selections, but then I spotted “From Up On Poppy Hill”. We have enjoyed many of the Miyazaki films, so we thought we’d judge a book by it’s cover – just this once – and give it a go.

We are just about to watch it, actually.


I’ll let you know how it goes.


It has been a nice day, all-in-all.

Even though it is sad to think about war (and all that goes with it), it is very important to stop and remember all of the people who sacrificed so much, so that we could have the freedom to enjoy a sunny day in November with our families and communities sharing expressions of those very freedoms.

So, how did you spend today? Did you visit a local cenotaph? Did you attend a Remembrance Day ceremony?

Was this Remembrance Day different than last year?





The Act of Remembrance is generally performed by a solo reading of the poem extract, with a response by all assembled. The exact wording of the Act of Remembrance is:

They shall grow not old,
as we that are left grow old:
Age shall not weary them,
nor the years condemn.
At the going down of the sun
and in the morning
We will remember them.




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8 thoughts on “And In The Morning, We Will Remember Them.

  1. Well done. A meaningful day for your kids. NS has it right. This should be a holiday. We had a wonderful ceremony today at school, but the level of importance just doesn’t come across as it does with a day away from work to show respect.

    • Thank you. I really do think it is important. In Ottawa we always had a lovely assembly at school and Thing 1 always helped with the technical stuff and A/V because he had amazing teachers (tech-ers!) and Thing 2 always came with me when she was teeny and then read when she was older or contributed art to the displays.

      Now that we are in Nova Scotia, we make sure to pay our respects on the day. It really is a “pittance of time” as Terry Kelly sings. The schools still do have assemblies, too. They just do it the day before and the children get to hear amazing speakers, etc.

      I think it will be a National holiday next year. I hope so. Canadians are a special bunch and I have faith we will not see “Remembrance Day Sale” ads on TV anytime soon. A day off to pay respects and reflect on our freedom is a good idea.

  2. I also cried at the service I attended at my children’s school. Last post started the tears. The service ended with Terry Kelly’s, “A Pittance of Time”. I was mess by the end of it. It was during the song that I realized that Canada had no WWI vets left, and, all to soon, we’ll be saying the same about our WWII vets. This is heartbreaking and scary to me at the same time. We must nevet forget, their sacrifice was too great.

    • I cried at every service my kids had in Ottawa.

      I love the Terry Kelly song! They always played it. The story behind that song is awesome, too. Do you know it?

      Yesterday there were many, very old, people moving along with assistance. They sacrificed so much. It is the *least* we can do to honour them.

      Thank you so much for reading and commenting and sharing your story. It means so much.

    • It really was, wasn’t it?

      In Fish Hatchery Park the Oak trees were dropping their big leaves during the ceremony and it was just so beautiful and calming.

      Thank you for reading. It means so much.

  3. I was at the ceremony at the National Military Cemetery, chaperoning Mag’s choir, but I missed most of it because 2 girls fainted!

    • Oh dear! Too much pressure or were they ill? I hope no one bumped her head!

      Was it cold in Ottawa, yesterday? I was thinking about you, actually. Wondering if you were freezing at the War Memorial.

      Thank you for all you and your family does. My family and I appreciate it!

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